Ask Proxy™ for Life
Text What's On Your Mind
We’ll think it through and suggest the best next step based on what we'd do if we were you.
Even if you never text us, we'll proactively reach out when the time is right.
what to Ask proxy
Anything You'd Text A Trusted Friend
(if they were available 24/7)
Talk it Out
Vent about your partner, ask for advice, or run a crazy idea by us - we'll listen, privately, and think it through. If you don't want to solve it that second, that's okay. We can hold space for you too.
Send What You See
Not sure how to decorate the table for the dinner party your hosting, redecorate the backyard, or stuck between two outfit choices? Send a photo and we’ll give you our opinion.
Ask for What You Need
If you're about to Google for a packing list, gift idea, or where to stay... send us a text instead! We’ll respond in less than a minute with the best option for your situation.
Don't Forget Anything
Feel free to tell us important dates or reminders and we’ll start thinking through what to do next, before we surface the reminder at the right time.
Our superpower? We bring up what you haven’t thought to ask.
Family Schedules
"Coordinate family Thanksgiving dates now so everyone can make plans. Tell me if you want a chef, potluck or to host it all yourself. I'll make a plan, you notify the family."
Holiday Planning
"What's the plan for Easter? Need brunch spot recs or menu ideas? Send me a photo of your table and I can suggest some new Easter decor to make it feel fresh."
Family Connection
"Want some table topics to mix it up over dinner tonight? A thoughtful conversation can make all the difference in the joy factor of an everyday event."
Date Night Ideas
"Want some unique date night ideas for the weekend? Novelty is what keeps things interesting!"
Holiday Planning
"Order an advent calendar for the kids. We love the playdoh calendar, although the unicorn one is impressive (every day there is a different unicorn item!), and a fidget one is always a winner."
Why Ask Proxy is different
We Think Ahead, Not Just Respond
1
Message Anytime
Text, voice memo, screenshots...
2
Clear Next Steps
Personalized based on your life
3
Proactive Reminders
We look out for you
Don't just take it from us!
Read what Tom's Guide had to say (a full review of Ask Proxy for Boomers)
Private, Always
No Ads.
No Data Selling.
No Pay to Play.
Most tools are built to monetize your attention. Ask Proxy™ is built to protect it.
We are proudly unbiased. No one can pay to be listed so that every recommendation we make is with your best interest in mind. We even search for the lowest price and send a coupon code automatically before providing any links for your consideration.
Most importantly, all conversations are private, and we don’t share or sell your data.
Pricing
Unlimited Support for $1/day
Our most popular plan is the Annual Plan, which works out to just $29/month when billed annually. It's the best value and gives you unlimited support by text all year long.
Prefer more flexibility? Start with our Month-to-Month Plan for $39/month and cancel anytime.
Whichever plan you choose, you'll get unlimited access to Proxy, available 24/7, personalized to you, and private by design.
Annual Plan
FAQs
Common Questions
Can I really ask anything?
Yes. Ask Proxy is private. Your conversations are never shared. We can talk through concerns in your relationship, job, or even your kids behavior. We can also keep it lighter too. Whatever thought you have that's taking up valuable headspace and distracting you from focusing on the now, or keeping you from taking action...Ask Proxy.
Is Ask Proxy only for parents?
No. Ask Proxy is for anyone navigating life logistics, decisions, relationships, and time management.
Is Ask Proxy human or AI?
AI allows Proxy to respond in real-time, but the guidance comes from curated expert insights and vetted resources, all hand selected by humans.
How is Ask Proxy different from ChatGPT?
Proxy is highly personalized based on your location, stage of life, and considers how you value time with every recommendation. But the bigggest differentiator is in our voice and outreach. We don't wait for you to ask us a question. Instead, we are constantly thinking about what may be coming your way (all the things you don't know to ask about), or how you can maximize your time for more joy. We send general encourgement, productivty hacks, and suggest activities that serve you best.
Why does Ask Proxy cost money?
You are the client. We work for you. We don't sell or reshare your data. There are no ads or paid placements, and every conversation is kept private. Above all, you are paying for someone to look out for you, think ahead, and surface what you don't know you need know...
Do I need to download an app?
No. Ask Proxy works through text message. Save Proxy as a contact in your phone, and text us like a friend.
No downloads.
No learning curve.
No new software to manage.
Do I need to know how to use AI?
No. No AI knowledge is required to use Ask Proxy. You don't need prompts. You don't need AI training. You don't need to learn a new system or even download an app. Just text us like you would text a friend.
How is Ask Proxy better than Claude?
Ask Proxy combines multiple sources of information, including your preferences, trusted experts, proprietary knowledge, and real-time web service searches. We remember what's happening in your life and use that context to make future recommendations.
Without any prompting, Ask Proxy thinks ahead and proactively reminds you about things you may not have thought to ask. Above all, Ask Proxy is private by design. We don't sell your data, train on your conversations, show advertisements, or accept paid placements.