Ask Proxy™
A Personal AI Assistant by Text
Always proactively thinking ahead, so you don't have to.
Private, personalized, and uniquely proactive.
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Private by Design
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For Your Personal Life
When you Ask Proxy™, it doesn't feel like using AI. It feels like texting a trusted friend who's looking out for you.
From dinner decisions and travel plans, to finding the perfect gift or even what to watch on TV tonight, Ask Proxy always seems to have the right suggestions at the right time.
The best part? We don’t just wait for you to ask questions. We proactively reach out when we notice things you may forget, or come across a new activity, restaurant, or experience that you may enjoy. Because everyone deserves someone looking out for them.
"Proxy is like an online journal that can answer back."
Dianna Walters, Ask Proxy User
How it works
Personalized To Your Life
You never need to learn how to "talk to AI," since we've taken the time to get to know you. Just send a text with what's on your mind, the same way you would message a best friend or partner. It takes about a minute for us to respond since we work through a series of thoughtful steps, every time we communicate with you.
You
When you create a profile with us, we learn a few things about your life so we can make the best recommendations, based on your life.
- Your stage of life
- Your preferences and priorities
- Your location
- Your value of time
- Your decision making style
Your context
We remember conversations and keep building a more personalized experience the more we get to know you, so you don't have to repeat yourself.
Our private knowledge
We'll take the context of your situation and refer to our private and proprietary database filled with years of research, frameworks, and guidance around home management, parenting, habits, time management, and relationships.
Curated expert guidance
We continue to consider advice for your situation, based on your life, from the lens of hand-selected experts we'd turn to for practical advice in real life. Depending on the issue, here are just a few experts we rely on for trusted, expert advice when messaging with you.
Esther Perel (Relationships) · Eve Rodsky (Mental Load) · James Clear (Habits) · Gretchen Rubin (Happiness) · Dr. Becky Kennedy (Parenting) · Laura Vanderkam (Work-Life Balance) · Brené Brown (Leadership) · Marie Kondo (Home Organization)
Real-time research
We continue to search in Google in real time so the recommendations we share with you are never stale. You don't have to prompt us to do this, we automatically filter through this lens.
One thoughtful recommendation
We send one actionable next step, and a link when appropriate, based on your real life. In less than a minute, we've filtered through what we know about you, the context of your message, our private knowledge base, the experts we've curated and trust, and even expanded to a Google search to make sure we are returning the most up to date and best result.
Because when a trusted friend helps you think something through, they don't start from scratch. And neither do we.
Worried About Privacy?
Ask Proxy™ is designed with your privacy in mind. Your information is never sold or shared, we do not track your location, and no external humans review your messages.
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For Your Work Team
Employees are constantly pulled between work and home demands, and that context switching has a cost.
The challenge isn't just lost productivity. It's that employees often turn to company systems to solve personal-life disruptions throughout the day.
Ask Proxy™ gives employees a private place to solve real-life decisions the moment a thought interrupts their flow, helping them take action faster, return their focus to work, and keep personal matters separate from company systems.
Supports All Employees
Protects Company Systems
Why Ask Proxy is different
We Think Ahead, Not Just Respond
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Message Anytime
Text, voice memo, screenshots...
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Clear Next Steps
Personalized based on your life
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Proactive Reminders
We look out for you
Our superpower? We bring up what you haven’t thought to ask.
Family Schedules
"Coordinate family Thanksgiving dates now so everyone can make plans. Tell me if you want a chef, potluck or to host it all yourself. I'll make a plan, you notify the family."
Holiday Planning
"What's the plan for Easter? Need brunch spot recs or menu ideas? Send me a photo of your table and I can suggest some new Easter decor to make it feel fresh."
Family Connection
"Want some table topics to mix it up over dinner tonight? A thoughtful conversation can make all the difference in the joy factor of an everyday event."
Date Night Ideas
"Want some unique date night ideas for the weekend? Novelty is what keeps things interesting!"
Holiday Planning
"Order an advent calendar for the grandkids. We love the playdoh calendar, although the unicorn one is impressive (every day there is a different unicorn item!), and a fidget one is always a winner."
Vacation Planning
"Take your grandchild on a trip when they are 15. If you have more than one, only invite one at a time. It's the perfect age - they aren't quite embarrassed enough to not come, but still young enough to need you and value the experience."
Gift Giving
"Load batteries in toys before you wrap them for the grandkids. Helps you be able to watch them play with it right away and feel the joy of the gift, instead of searching the garage for the right size batteries."
Health
"Schedule an at-home wellness boost (IV/immune) for you, your partner or even invite your friends and take the opportunity to catch up. You’ll feel energized and actionable during flu season."
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How Will You Use a Personal AI Assistant?
For Individuals
Never forget a detail.
For Organizations
Improve employees focus at work.
For Gifting
Share the gift of relief.
FAQs
Common Questions
Can I really ask anything?
Yes. Ask Proxy is private. Your conversations are never shared. We can talk through concerns in your relationship, job, or even your kids behavior. We can also keep it lighter too. Whatever thought you have that's taking up valuable headspace and distracting you from focusing on the now, or keeping you from taking action...Ask Proxy.
Is Ask Proxy only for parents?
No. Ask Proxy is for anyone navigating life logistics, decisions, relationships, and time management.
Is Ask Proxy human or AI?
AI allows Proxy to respond in real-time, but the guidance comes from curated expert insights and vetted resources, all hand selected by humans.
How is Ask Proxy different from ChatGPT?
Proxy is highly personalized based on your location, stage of life, and considers how you value time with every recommendation. But the bigggest differentiator is in our voice and outreach. We don't wait for you to ask us a question. Instead, we are constantly thinking about what may be coming your way (all the things you don't know to ask about), or how you can maximize your time for more joy. We send general encourgement, productivty hacks, and suggest activities that serve you best.
Why does Ask Proxy cost money?
You are the client. We work for you. We don't sell or reshare your data. There are no ads or paid placements, and every conversation is kept private. Above all, you are paying for someone to look out for you, think ahead, and surface what you don't know you need know...
Do I need to download an app?
No. Ask Proxy works through text message. Save Proxy as a contact in your phone, and text us like a friend.
No downloads.
No learning curve.
No new software to manage.
Do I need to know how to use AI?
No. No AI knowledge is required to use Ask Proxy. You don't need prompts. You don't need AI training. You don't need to learn a new system or even download an app. Just text us like you would text a friend.
How is Ask Proxy better than Claude?
Ask Proxy combines multiple sources of information, including your preferences, trusted experts, proprietary knowledge, and real-time web service searches. We remember what's happening in your life and use that context to make future recommendations.
Without any prompting, Ask Proxy thinks ahead and proactively reminds you about things you may not have thought to ask. Above all, Ask Proxy is private by design. We don't sell your data, train on your conversations, show advertisements, or accept paid placements.
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